How to Tell if a Guy is Serious About You or Not
By David Carter
Learning how to tell if a guy is serious about you or not will require you to keep one thing in mind: Men are simple creatures, simpler than most women care to realize.
And when a man is romantically interested in a woman, there are certain things he does that are dead giveaways to any woman who knows what to look for.
If you’re currently dating a guy (or plan to in the future), and you want to know if he’s really interested in you or not, here are a few useful tips to help you figure out if he’s really serious about you:
1. He Improves His Presentation
Men tend to clean themselves up a bit more when they’re seriously interested in a female companion. It’s almost as if they instinctively realize that women desire neatness, cleanliness, and tidy surroundings. It is due to this fact that they adjust accordingly.
In order to impress the woman he desires, a man may gradually try to present himself in the best light possible. He’ll be more conscious of his dress and appearance (if he’s smart), and he’ll see to it that his surroundings have been tidied up for his potential love interest.
2. He Becomes More Thoughtful
Men may enjoy being catered to, but they also enjoy catering to the woman that they are trying to woo. You may find that a guy friend, or the guy you’re dating, may become more helpful and thoughtful as you hang out and spend more time together.
This is a man’s instinctual need to show his female companion that he’s going out of his way to create a sense of security and comfort within her. This is his way of communicating to you that he wants you to open up and trust him a bit more, and he does this by being more considerate towards your needs.
3. He Listens To You – Intently
When a guy becomes interested in you, he will want to attentively listen to what you have to say. This is another way in which he’s trying to communicate his desire for you to trust and open up to him.
He’ll want to know you on a more intimate level, and he’ll be all ears to listen as you say what’s on your mind.
He wants you to feel emotionally safe with him, and that he is capable of being a reliable source of encouragement and inspiration for you.
When he is seriously interested in you romantically, you will find that he will urge you to talk about your day. He will want to know more of what’s on your mind, and also about your dreams and passions. He will become much more interested in knowing what makes you tick as a person, including your likes, dislikes, pet peeves, and even personal goals.
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