How to Romance a Man – 5 Ideas to Make Him Crave For Your Attention
By Felicity Morrison
The constant question on every woman’s mind that wants to become the apple of a man’s eye is simply this…
What do men want from women?
The answer to this question is something that all women need to know when it comes to relationships. And it’s important that a woman ensures that her man knows that she’s the most amazing thing that ever happened to him, whether they’ve been together two months or twenty years.
So what does a man want from a woman? And how can she use this knowledge to make him crave and desire her even more?
Well, let’s find out!
I’ve compiled a list of the five most foolproof, simplest ways to romance a man. Use anything on this list and your man will be telling his friends that he’s the luckiest man on earth to have such a cool, fun, gorgeous wife/girlfriend/fiancé that knows how to romance a man.
Learning how to be irresistible your man will make your relationship the best it has ever been. So begin implementing these ideas today in your relationship:
1. Do something unexpected for him.
2. Plan a night that’s all about him from start to finish.
3. Surprise him with a weekend getaway with all his favorite activities planned.
4. Take an interest in something he loves.
5. Say Something Nice about his Mom
1. Do the Unexpected
Men love the unexpected because they think they know what to expect. You will knock his socks off and make him want you more than ever by something he never saw coming. For example, he probably thought you weren’t paying attention the time he mentioned he loves peanut butter cups, especially if they’ve been in the freezer for a while.
Keeping a stock of frozen peanut butter cups in your freezer will make him feel like you believe everything he says is important, even when he thinks he’s making idle conversation. He will feel appreciated and loved.
2. Make it all About Him
When my husband and I plan a date night, which is more complicated now that we have two little girls, it never fails that when I ask him what he wants to do and where he wants to go that he replies, “Oh, I don’t care. As long as I’m with you, anything is great.” Of course choosing what I want to do that night is always fun (for me) but sometimes you need to surprise him.
Next time he throws the old, “Whatever you want is fine” at you, surprise him by taking him to his favorite restaurant and sitting at the bar so you can order drinks and watch the game or the sports highlights. See the movie you know is going to be awful but that he’s going to love. I promise you, he will never find you more attractive than he will on this night.
3. Getaway for the Weekend
Surprise him with a trip this weekend to his favorite city; make reservations at his favorite restaurant – or any restaurant with a big steak on the menu – and call in a tee time at a local golf course. Doing something that is all about him will make him feel appreciated, loved and it is exactly how to make him want you.
4. Love his Love
My husband is a huge college football fan. I love our team and always have, but I know little about other teams. My husband, on the other hand, loves to talk sports with me and used to become frustrated with me when I nodded and smiled politely, while clearly not listening to him. Once, he asked me if I thought sitting in the fitting room at Saks watching me try on dresses and listening to me break down his opinion of me was fun for him.
It isn’t, but he does it anyway because he loves me and wants to make me happy. I then made it my mission to take an interest in football, because I do like it I just never paid much attention to it. When I looked at my husband a few weeks later and quoted some stats to him that I learned from watching Sports Center and reading my new football apps, he practically attacked me with desire because he’d never found me sexier than he did as I talked football with him.
5. Adore His Family
Say something nice about his mom and he will love you forever. Men love their mothers. The first time I met my now mother in law, I told my husband that I thought she was amazing and that even if we didn’t work out, I’d be keeping her on my speed dial. He told me years later that he knew he would marry me the minute I told him that I liked his mom, because he could never want a woman that didn’t love his family.
Learning how to romance a man is not difficult. It just requires you really listen to him, figure out his needs, and make him feel like the most important person on earth. Deep down inside every man wants a woman who just ‘gets him.’
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