How to Rekindle Your Relationship – 10 Tips For More Passion and Romance
By Michael Webb
Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic, passion, and romance that it once had? You’re not alone.
Living with the same partner for a long time can leave us feeling stable and comfortable, and, as a result, it can also kill the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place.
If you want to learn how to rekindle your relationship, here are some simple, fun and creative love tips and ideas to reignite the passion and romance that once made your relationship so magical:
1. Send Your Lover a Unique Gift
This is a great way to help rekindle your relationship. First, grab a piece of paper and some colorful crayons. The first thing to do is to draw a bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two stick figures holding hands. After that, add labels with your two names pointing to the stick figures. Write a simple ‘I Love You’ inside a heart.
Then get a large formal envelope and put your drawing inside and type up a formal address label of your partner’s workplace, such as: “For the immediate and urgent attention of: Laura Walker, Level 15, Collins & Smith Solicitors, New York.”
Try mailing it to your partner so they receive it in the middle of a hectic day. They’ll greatly appreciate your sweet and romantic gesture.
2. Learn To Become Kids Again
If you want to rekindle your relationship, try to become kids again by enjoying each other’s company while doing fun, silly, or even “childish” things.
For example, as you walk by a beautiful park, visit the swings and give your partner a ride. This will often bring back happy memories from their childhood. And we all know how quickly a few childhood memories can brighten our day and make us feel giddy inside.
3. Have Some Water Fun
On a hot, steamy summer’s day, purchase two large water pistols and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out and throw one to your partner and then have a huge water fight.
After the fight, try to engage in some other fun and romantic beach activities that will be sure to rekindle the passion in your relationship.
4. Give a Special Massage
A unique massage can be a great way to rekindle your relationship. And here’s how!
First, purchase a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Next, place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an appointment call: (Your Phone Number)
5. Bring Back Your Best Childhood Memories
Sharing childhood memories is a great way to rekindle your relationship. Try contacting your partner’s family and ask if there was anything that she always wanted when she was a little girl.
For example, if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted.
Ladies, you can do this for your man as well. And he’ll greatly appreciate the effort.
6. Watch the Clouds Go By
Take your lover on a nice drive and find someplace serene and filled with grass. When you find a beautiful and peaceful spot, lie down with your partner and look up at the clouds.
Nothing rekindles romance quite like green grass, a cool breeze, and watching the natural beauty of nature unfold.
7. Take a Long Walk along the Beach
This one is pretty straightforward. Just take your lover on a nice stroll along the beach and start a romantic conversation with them.
After you’re done with your trek through the sand, trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand and sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.
This is a great way to rekindle the love in your relationship.
8. Plan a Picnic for a Beautiful Summer’s Night
Romantic picnics are almost guaranteed to help you rekindle the magic in your relationship. Simply spread a picnic blanket on the ground and set out some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up at the stars together.
9. Show Your Undying Gratitude for Your Partner
Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find it, with a note on it saying: “Thank you for coming into my life.”
Simple, thoughtful, and irresistibly romantic.
10. Spice up Your Passionate Lovemaking
Probably the most profound way to rekindle the romance in your relationship is to spice up your love making. Surprise your partner with a little gift after you make love, try a new position, learn to give your partner a sensual massage before or after, or just spend some time staring into each other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before making love.
Many people underestimate the affect intimate and passionate love making has on a relationship. If you spice it up, chances are you and your partner will naturally do romantic things for each other. Why? Because passionate love making connects two people in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing else can.
From the Editors: Michael Webb was featured on The Oprah Winfrey Show, and is widely known as “The World’s Most Romantic Man.” He is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your love making, adding more passion, pleasure, and intimacy to your experience. Get more of Michael’s advice over at: www.500lovemakingtips.com
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