How to Make Him Want You More – 3 Ways to Get the Romance Back
By David Carter
So you want to know how to make him want you more in order to get more romance in your relationship? And I’m sure you’re thinking that it may be near impossible for you to have the romance and affection that you once had in your relationship, if at all.
Don’t fret. Because even though your man may be nowhere near the Prince Charming he used to be (if he was at all), there’s still some hope.
Chances are you’ve probably been thinking that men don’t appreciate romance as much as women do. You probably believe that all couples end up as simply companions over time where even though you both love each other the sparks of passion have faded.
If you do believe this, I’m here to tell you that you’ve been lied to.
Men DO enjoy romance just as much as women. It’s just that men see romance much differently.
Whereas a woman is more tantalized by romantic words, gestures, and situations, a man is seduced by teasing, touching, and most importantly, visual stimulation.
For a woman, romance is all about being taken on an adventure, being the apple of a man’s eye, and being desired more than anything else in a man’s world. A woman’s heart begins to dance when she thinks of a man sacrificing everything else for her, embracing her in his arms, and making her feel a deep sense of security that so few women ever experience in this world.
To a woman, romance is about being affectionately loved and appreciated for who she is. And she enjoys the fantasy of believing that her feminine beauty is too overpowering for the man she desires to resist her.
It’s a beautiful thing. But make no mistake; to a man romance is quite different.
To a man, romance tends to be about the hunt, the chase, and “the game” so to speak. And no, this doesn’t mean that he’s into playing games with you, but it’s the thought of conquest that inspires him to pursue a woman.
A woman is designed to receive and to “fall prey to” the pursuits of a man. And a man is designed to pursue that which he finds valuable and worth fighting for.
But what does all this mean?
Well, if you want him to want you more and give you more romance you must learn how to activate his hunting instincts.
It’s as simple as that.
But I won’t leave you hanging just like that. Let’s dive in and find out what a woman can do to activate a man’s hunting instincts to get him to be more romantic with her:
1. Initiate More Romance
I know I know. If you were trying to make him want you more by activating his hunting instincts why on earth would YOU initiate the romance?
Listen, men are much simpler than most women realize. If you begin to show more romantic interest in making him happy, if he really cares about you (and he’s not a complete numbskull) he’ll take notice and play the game as well.
Use little romantic surprises to spice up your relationship. Come up with new romantic date ideas to keep things fresh and to inspire more fun and adventure.
Learn how to express your love in romantic ways that show him just how loving and compassionate you are. Remember, the more a man adores you, the more he’ll feel compelled to express his love to you in his own unique way.
And you don’t have to wait around for him to begin expressing himself more romantically either. Start things off by reminding him that he means the world to you and that you still find him irresistible.
Remember that a body in motion stays in motion, and the same applies for a relationship. If you want more romance, you don’t have to wait for your man. You want it, and believe me, on some level so does he.
2. Flirt With Him
If you want to make him want you more and give you the romance you deserve then you’re going to have to learn how to be more playful, fun, and flirtatious with him. And if you want your man to engage you in more flirting, learn to tease him and tantalize his sexual senses.
A great way to flirt with your man is to boost his manly ego in a sexy way. Remind him of just how lucky you are to have him around. Embrace him and place his hands on your waist. Touch him often and casually, especially on his chest, arms, and back.
Make him feel as though he can do no wrong (even if it’s just for a few moments), and become completely enamored in his presence.
Do this while using seductive body language to engage his visual senses. Men are suckers for what they see. So the more you can flirt using both your words AND your body, the greater his response will be and the more attraction you’ll create.
3. Say Romantic Things
Don’t be fooled, most men actually enjoy communicating in a romantic way with the woman they love and adore. It’s just that sometimes we may need a bit of encouragement and perhaps inspiration.
And this bit of encouragement and inspiration can actually come from you. That is of course, if you already know the kind of romantic things to say to a man.
The beautiful thing about communicating romantically is that it takes us away from all the mundaneness of life. And mastering the art of having conversations will really help you to spice up your relationship.
Figure out how to start a romantic conversation and even take advantage of today’s technology and send your husband or boyfriend romantic text messages throughout the day to create a bit of anticipation in him.
Trust me, sending your husband or boyfriend a romantic text message is a great way to make him think about you all day. And I can think of no better way to make him want you more in every way than to put passion-filled pictures in his mind that will make him want nothing more than to do his best to romantically seduce you.
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