How to Get His Attention
By David Carter
Ladies, it’s not rocket science. Men aren’t the most complex creatures on this earth, and getting their attention isn’t that difficult once you understand how they think.
Men are attracted first by what they see. This is very important. Although some women wouldn’t admit it, they’re more attracted to a man’s personality than by his looks. But for men, looks come first.
Keep this in mind when you want a guy to approach you. Physical attraction is more than just your appearance, but it’s also about how you communicate your appearance in a way to trigger attraction in a man.
Flirting With Your Body Language
Some women may be gorgeous in terms of their physical looks, but their body language stinks. What this means is that they are unconsciously doing things to repel men with their actions and behavior.
If you want to open yourself up to more interesting encounters from men, try doing things that communicate more openness on your part through the use of charming body language.
Men will pick up on this openness in your behavior and you’ll soon find yourself being approached by more interesting men simply because of the subtleties of your actions. These subtle actions will add to your personal charm and sexiness.
How to Charm a Man
One example of an attractive body language technique for women is smiling while at the same time playing with your hair. No matter how long or short it might be, you can find some way to touch your hair while smiling at the guys you find attractive.
This communicates with men on an unconscious level that you are open to interaction, and it also creates an indescribable allure that some women seem to naturally possess. An attractive physical appearance mixed with charming body language is an irresistible combination for any man.
The beauty about techniques like this is that you don’t have to really say a word. If a guy looks in your direction (and you find him attractive or interesting of course), give him a subtle glance and an alluring smile while touching your hair.
Be Sweet but Sexy
If you really want to increase the level of sexiness with this technique, when you give him the subtle glance, lower your eyes as you look at him and then meet his eyes again and look away. Men find this insanely sexy!
How well this works for you will all depend on your own level of creativity and comfort in using your body language. If you can use these body language cues effectively, you’ll have more attractive and interesting men approaching you consistently without you even having to say as much as a “hello!”
Remember, it’s quite okay to give him a hint, ladies. Men want to be enticed; it makes the dating game much more fun for everyone.
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