How to Fall Back in Love With Your Husband or Boyfriend
By Kara Oh
If you’ve been together for a while you may want to learn how to fall back in love with your husband or boyfriend. Those “in love sparks” can disappear over time. Sometimes they just ebb and flow, coming and going mysteriously.
When they’re gone, things just don’t feel as good as they used to. And it’s here when you try to learn how to improve your relationship with your husband or boyfriend.
Often, we’re not very aware of why things don’t feel quite right, you wonder if your relationship is over, and hope that somehow, the love will return.
We don’t know why it went away and we don’t know why it comes back.
But what if you could help keep the feelings of being ‘in love’ alive? Quite often a man or woman contacts me, worried because their partner has announced they’re no longer ‘in love.’
Too often it’s assumed this means the relationship or marriage is over, and often it is, because they’ve let things go too far.
But if they had known what they could have done along the way to keep the ‘in love sparks’ alive, they very well might not have gotten to the point of no return.
So, here are three things that can help a couple bring back that ‘in love’ feeling again:
1. Begin Having FUN Again
Remember when you first fell in love? Weren’t you having fun doing pretty much anything? And didn’t you make a point to create activities and time together so you could have fun together?
Didn’t you both come up with romantic date ideas to create memories together? Didn’t you laugh and do silly things because you felt so youthful?
Well, think back; what did you do then that you could plan now? Make things happen because they aren’t going to happen on their own.
2. Share Long, Passionate Kisses
You can’t get aroused if you don’t allow a kiss to go at least ten seconds. If you kiss for ten seconds as you part in the morning, you’ll both be thinking about each other in new and spicy ways.
If you share ten second kisses when you meet at the end of the day, you might end up in the bedroom for a spontaneous romp. And if you kiss for ten seconds when you’re in bed, it’s amazing how often you will no longer be too tired to have sex.
3. Speak Your Heart to Avoid Resenting Each Other
This is a bit tricky if you’ve both been holding back and allowing resentment to build up, maybe over many years. In my Marriage Makeover Manual there are three communication techniques that I teach so couples can safely talk about the little and sometimes big things that have been swept under the rug.
The biggest problem with resentment is that it causes us to begin to develop loathing toward our partner, and who wants to be touched by someone you’re beginning to utterly despise?
That’s why I call resentment the killer of love and romance between couples. And the strange thing is, we do it to ourselves by not speaking up when they do or say things that usually start out as small irritations.
So always remember to keep the channels of communication open and honest, because learning how to fall back in love with your husband or boyfriend will require you both to reach a deeper level of intimacy.
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