How to Attract Women
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By Joseph Matthews
Every guy wants to know how to attract women.
Let’s face it – we’re not all blessed with the good looks of people like Brad Pitt. Some of us are just average looking guys. Others are below average looking. Heck – even GOOD LOOKING guys can have trouble trying to figure out how to attract women!
So what does that mean for all of us who want to get a woman all hot-and-bothered? Well, the logical conclusion is this…
Attraction cannot depend on what you look like!
Obsessing over your looks (or lack of them) is a sure-fire way to take yourself out of the attraction game before things have even gotten started. Understand that you need to take care of yourself and tailor your appearance as well as you possibly can. But short of extensive and painful plastic surgery, you simply cannot change what you look like.
So if you can’t change it – deal with it!
Luckily for us, there’s more to attraction than just your physical features. Accept that you look like the way you are, and deal with the things you CAN change, and actually have control over.
See, the “attraction equation” is more than just about being a good looking guy. It’s about your attitude, your intellect, and your social skills and status. These are the things that are the most important when it comes to learning how to attract women.
1. Attitude Is Everything
Having the right attitude is essential to generating attraction in a woman. Confidence is key, here. Being secure in who you are and what you’re after is a great way to show people that you’re someone they will want to meet and hang out with.
And with the right attitude, your body language and non-verbal communication will naturally broadcast to those around you that you are an attractive person.
2. Make Your Conversations Intelligent
Conversation is the cornerstone of attraction. Your words can help lead people into the type of emotion you want them to feel. But more than that, if you can engage in good conversation, you will captivate anyone you’re talking to.
You can do this two ways. The first is to ask questions, and show interest in her replies. The second is to tell stories.
Stories are the best way to make people experience emotion. Everyone loves stories, and if you have good ones to tell, people will love talking to you.
3. Master Your Social Skills
Being attractive is about interacting with people in the right way. You need to be fun, entertaining, and a good conversationalist.
You also have to know what’s appropriate in certain social situations. Being loud and boisterous at a fancy dinner party may not be a good thing to do. Always be aware of the environment you’re in and act accordingly.
Be laid back, and try not to take things too seriously. Getting insulted or frustrated when things aren’t going as you planned is a sure fire way to alienate the people you’re trying to attract, especially women. Allow yourself room to mess up if necessary, and keep from being insulting or rude.
But most of all – have fun! The best way to be social and attract people to you is to have a good time. People love having a good time! In fact, they will seek you out if you can be the source of their fun.
4. Cultivate a High Social Status
More than anything else, having a high social status will attract more people to you than you know what to do with. And social status doesn’t have to have anything to do with how much money you make or how good looking you are. In fact, social status can be completely manufactured!
By being the life of the party, or dominating the conversation, you can show people you’re someone who demands attention. By being funny or witty, intelligent, commanding, and confident, people will naturally defer to you.
If you are able to make this go on, you’ll put yourself into the position of a sort of authority figure. The more time you spend this way, the higher your social status.
With these factors governing the situation, it goes to say that using them to your advantage will allow you to attract women. And looks will have no bearing!
Oh, and one more thing…
If you want to learn more about meeting women, my name is Joseph Matthews, and I’ve been been teaching men how to meet women since 2004. I’m also widely recognized as an authority in the subject of confidence building and dating advice for men.
So if you want to discover more about how to meet women, visit my website and check out my free newsletter today over at: www.artofapproaching.com.
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