By Sara Kyle

Many towns and cities have plenty of nightlife opportunities that don’t cost much making them perfect for couples. Search for plays and music events in advance and you’ll get good tickets well within your budget. You may even stumble across some free events to see.

You’ll find shows where you can get dressed up for a full evening of entertainment or just ones that are casual in nature. Do some research and you’ll find plenty of amazing shows to go see.

Going to an exciting production can rekindle your relationship and bring out all the best memories. So here are some event date ideas to get you started:

1. The Community Playhouse

Getting tickets to the playhouse is easy and they aren’t very expensive. Look for the matiness shows so you’ll save money and provide a nice escape for the two of you.

Take a nice walk after the play and enjoy each other’s company. For night shows consider getting dressed up but skip the dinner so you’ll save money.

Have a nice dessert after the show such as ice cream and a local parlor. You can save money and still have a nice time together.

2. A School Play

You’ll find great performances at a high school, university, or a college. Many of our favorite Hollywood stars started their careers performing at these shows so they’re usually quite good.

Check the drama department of a local school or check online and see what’s coming up on the schedule. Try to get tickets in advance and put that date on the calendar as something to look forward to.

These tickets are usually quite inexpensive so maybe go for a meal and make it a full night out.

3. Church Productions

You might not think about going to church as romantic but you can have a fun time with choirs and other performances. These concerts can bring a fun night of entertainment and you’ll enjoy the music.

The interior of a church, synagogue or other place of worship is the perfect place to enjoy a night of music. During holiday times there’s always amazing performances.

If you’re married, chances are you got married in a church so take in some good music there too. The atmosphere is wonderful and you can hold hands as you listen and even sing along.

The church is the foundation of family so go there and share your love. Remember how it felt to get married as the music fills your soul and spirit.

4. Music under the Heavens

You don’t need to go to expensive concerts to enjoy some music and the company of each other. See if your community has a place with music in the park or a festival you can attend.

These are usually free you just supply the chair. Often there are booths with things to buy and many types of delicious food to sample.

Maybe even a local group will be performing a show during the festival. Check your local newspaper or the Internet for upcoming events.

You can even go and have your own picnic if there isn’t any food available. Spread out a blanket and bring along your favorite treats.

Bring nice dishes, glassware and a good drink to enjoy. Take in the music and have a good time.

You don’t need to spend a lot of money to take in a show and a meal. Use these inexpensive events to share your love of music and more importantly, each other.

By Sara Kyle

The past can bring back special memories of how things used to be. You were just dating and probably did some crazy things together.

Activities might have been simple but they were the fun innocence of youth. Go back to that time and enjoy these activities all over again.

Laughter is the spark that can reignite the romance in a relationship. You don’t need expensive dinners, just enjoy the silly moments with each other.

Here are some old-school romance ideas you can try:

1. Get Down at the Roller Rink

The roller rink can take you back to some fun times. They are a funky and fun place to let loose and share some laughs.

The disco ball and the lights will take you back and the music gets you moving across the floor arm in arm.

Forget the fancy moves and just go with the flow of it. Put your arms around each other and just skate like kids again.

You may fall but get back up again and keep going. Look for an adult’s only skate time so you can avoid the crowds.

Get lost in the moment and each other.

2. A Movie Outside – the Drive In

The drive-in can bring back very romantic memories of steamed windows. You’ll need to look around for these places but they are out there still.

The old drive-in is making a comeback so you may see more of them out there. You can also find outdoor movies where there’s a theatre in a park. Bring a blanket and some chairs along with you.

Your movie date will be even more romantic under the stars. Snuggle under your blanket and keep warm.

Be sure to bring some snacks with you such as popcorn and a cold soda. If you can find an old drive-in it will be even better. Climb in the back seat and get nice and cozy.

Be a kid again and take a trip back to your past. Maybe those windows will steam up again.

3. Go Bowling Together

Reignite the romantic sparks again by going bowling. Put on those shows and make your moves.

Bowling is fun no matter how good you are. Have a contest with each other and reward the winner with a romantic twist.

Come up with your own ideas for the reward.

Enjoy some food at the alley like a hot dog or some pizza and capture those old times again. Be like teenagers again.

Go bowling even if you have never done it before, you could have some good laughs together. Pretend you have no clue about bowling and show each other how it’s done for some close moments together.

Give each other lessons and take the romance home with you!

4. Skate Together

Turn those cold winter days into a romantic date with some ice skating. Enjoy each other’s company and some hot coffee or chocolate as you take breaks from skating.

Take your time as you skate and don’t worry if you fall a couple of times it’s bound to happen if you haven’t skated for some time. Have a laugh together and snuggle up to keep warm.

The romance will cut through the cold. Enjoy a nice time as you skate together.

Go for fun activities from your past to start the romance again. Try these activities even if you have never done them before.

Feel like a kid again and let the romance shine in through. Now go out and have some fun together.

By David Carter

I’m not even going to beat around the bush with this because it’s THAT important that you learn this as soon as possible if you’ve been failing with women.

Here’s the ONE quality that if you possess it, will guarantee your failure with the woman you want or have in your life.

What is this quality?

It’s…

Insecurity.

No sensible woman of quality will stand for it, and no man who wants to become the perfect man for the woman he desires should possess it.

Unfortunately, most men today are simply INSECURE about themselves, their place in the world, and their relationships with the opposite sex. If a man can simply develop the kind of courage that communicates that he IS a man of high-status, a leader, and a king in his own right, then he will attract and keep the kind of woman that will treat him like a king.

It all begins with the inner confidence that speaks on his behalf. From the way he walks to the way he talks, he instinctively KNOWS that he is a force to be reckoned with and that he is more than capable of leading and loving the woman of his choice.

The secure man is a mature one, and he sees the world as a place of abundance. And knowing this, he prefers to be with a high-quality woman that is highly compatible with his nature.

Being insecure as a man will make a woman reject and lose all respect for you. She can’t help it. She’s been designed by nature to seek out secure men. In fact, security and manliness almost go hand in hand. You can’t have one without the other. And being secure with yourself is the starting point to becoming the kind of man that you really want to be.

And this was something that took me a long, long time to realize and an even longer time to develop. In fact, I’m still developing, because as long as you’re alive you have more room for growth and maturity as a man, especially in your relationships.

Trust me; I’m right here with you on this journey.

And you’ve probably already heard it a thousand times before how attractive and desirable self-confidence is to a woman when a man possesses it. All sorts of dating gurus and relationship “experts” will tell you how self-confidence is the core component to being the kind of man that a woman finds irresistible.

Well, they’re halfway there.

Self-confidence is actually only ONE component of the equation.

For example, you can be confident in your job, but lack confidence around beautiful women. You may be confident in dealing with other men but totally lacking confidence in your own relationship with a woman.

You may even be confident enough to attract a phenomenal woman, but totally unfit in the confidence department to KEEP her for the long-term.

Do you see what I mean?

Self-confidence is only the beginning. Because if you want to have an amazing relationship with a great woman, you’re going to have to learn how to overcome your limiting beliefs as it relates to romance and commitment as well to become the kind of man that a great woman wants and needs in her life.

By David Carter

Now, before I even attempt to explain to you what I believe is the key to attracting and keeping a great woman in your life, let me first say what masculine chivalry is NOT.

• It is not bending over backwards so that a woman always gets what she wants from you.

• It is not always putting her needs before yours so that she will fall in love you.

• It is not being so patient and understanding that you tolerate utter disrespect and rude behavior from a woman.

• It is not being a love-struck puppy dog that gives her flowers and candy in hopes that she’ll love you forever.

• It is not being a macho jerk that displays feats of strength in order to win a woman’s heart.

• It is not being her savior and knight in shining armor every time there’s conflict or a challenge in her life.

• It is not being a doormat that she uses to get her way.

• It is not being a dominating man that rules her with an iron fist.

• It is not being a “nice guy” with a heart of gold that only wants her love and affection.

• And it is not being some swashbuckling character in a movie that goes through great lengths to rescue his woman from harm.

Okay, maybe it has a little to do with that last one, but let me explain.

Masculine Chivalry is essentially the perfect mix of manly virtues and courtly behavior as it relates to how you live your life and how you interact with women. It is the perfect combination of mature manliness and romantic seduction.

The mature masculine man is confident, poised, productive, assertive, and self-directed. The chivalrous man is courageous and empathic in that he knows when it is acceptable and necessary to go out of his way to improve the quality of life of those around him.

This is the kind of man that sees the world as a place of abundance, and he goes about the world making it a better place for himself and others.

He doesn’t need to be the center of attention, nor does he need the approval and praise of those he serves. And even though he takes on the task of providing amply for himself, his woman, and those he has accepted responsibility for, he does not see this as a chore, but as a duty that is worthy of him.

If I could sum up the feeling of masculine chivalry, it is this:

It is the sense of duty that a man feels deep within himself in becoming his best so that he can give his best and feel satisfied within himself that he is doing his best. He doesn’t NEED to be approved, praised, or rewarded by anyone, but his satisfaction lies in overcoming fear and weakness while helping to rid the world of all that causes pain and suffering.

This kind of man is both a leader and a healer. And he is devoted to the woman he chooses as he finds fulfillment in fulfilling her deepest desires to be loved, cherished, and appreciated both passionately and intimately.

Such is the well-rounded chivalrous man of exceptional character. As this is the kind of man who is not only a REAL man through and through, but he’s also interesting, fun, seductive, and VERY considerate of others. He is not a “nice guy” simply because he chooses NOT to suffer or sacrifice himself just so people will like him.

He does the RIGHT thing as much as possible as opposed to the “nice” thing, even when it is difficult. But he is also not rude, crude, or vulgar in his demeanor, for no high-quality woman in her right mind desires such a man.

The man who embodies Masculine Chivalry is one who understands and VALUES commitment.

First, he is committed to his principles. He lives his life by a strict code of honor. He is a man of high ideals and he values all that is good and noble in the world.

This in turn makes him appear noble, magnanimous, and gracious with others because he makes decisions based on unchanging virtues.

Second, he is committed to his purpose in life. He lives to serve the world and to give the very best of himself in some productive pursuit.

If he is a musician, he is devoted to bringing happiness to himself and others through beautiful sound. If he is a doctor, he is deeply passionate about his work and sees the healing of the sick as more than a job or a career. He sees it as a calling. In this way he is devoted not only to a vocation, but to his calling in life.

Thirdly, he is committed to his relationships. Such a man learns to develop empathy for others and he sees it as his duty to make the world a better place to live in for those that he loves.

He abides by the golden rule that a man should treat others as he would like others to treat him. And with this in mind, he is proactive in treating his family, friends, and associates with respect, tolerance, and honor.

Such a man can be described as fearless, dutiful, valiant, civil, faithful, honest, and devoted. He is far from being cowardly, rude, and disloyal, as these are the qualities of the men that he fights daily to ensure that the world is made a better place for not only the noble, but for the weak, the helpless, and the delicate things in life.

The most phenomenal women in this world are highly attracted to such men. They are desperately waiting for more men to step up and transform themselves into the kind of men that they can give themselves to.

Yes, you heard me right. High-quality women are DESPERATELY waiting for men who embody masculine chivalry.

Even if you’re already in a relationship with an amazing woman, you can continually develop yourself into a better man and make her see you as an irreplaceable lover and leader. She’ll find herself even more attracted to you as you take the path of masculine chivalry.

And if she’s truly a phenomenal woman you’ll find yourself being treated like a king more and more every day.

And what guy in his right mind doesn’t want that?

By David Carter

If you want to get a man to open up emotionally, there’s something you should know.

There’s something he’s going to need from you before he can open up his heart to you completely.

One of the most important things that a man needs from a woman if she wants him to completely open up and commit to her is Emotional Intimacy.

Here’s the thing, most men tend to develop along these lines:

As the young male develops, he starts out as a vulnerable little boy and needs the nurturing of his mother to help him grow. If he’s lucky, he also has his father in his life guiding and teaching him in the way a young boy should act.

And keep in mind that a lot of guys don’t have a very emotionally open relationship with their fathers. But that’s a subject for another day…

But I want you to think of his heart at this point like a castle, and the doors to this castle are swung wide open where anything can enter as he is exposed to his environment.

Then as he grows and he becomes more exposed to the outside world, reality hits and soon circumstances teaches him that he must keep that door close as much as possible. He soon learns that men need to be strong; he learns that he shouldn’t cry, or maybe a bad experience with a woman completely changes his view of intimacy with women.

In any case, because of this he closes the doors shut and becomes more cautious to who and what he allows to enter. He feels secure and in control of his emotions, which gives him a deep sense of satisfaction as a man.

But then he meets a great woman. Someone he can depend and rely on, and someone with whom he can put his trust in…completely. But deep down inside he knows that in order to give himself to this woman he must open up those doors.

In order for him to truly love her and allow her to enjoy the gift of loving him, he must open up the doors to his heart and give her the keys. Apart of him wants to do this, but in reality he just doesn’t know how.

And sadly, a lot of guys aren’t equipped or prepared to do this. In fact, a lot of great guys out there simply do not know HOW to do this.

Past experiences have taught them that to be so vulnerable as a man is suicide and ridiculous.

And because of this, many men are in fact incapable of opening those doors themselves, unless the right woman comes along who has the keys.

So here’s the secrets to his heart, and where you, as a woman, come in.

Even though a man may be in full control of his emotions, the woman who has a soft, healing, and feminine touch will be given FULL ACCESS to his most intimate parts.

How to Get Him to Open His Heart to You

Have you ever wondered why some women can get a man to commit and some cannot? Or have you ever been puzzled as to why some women enjoy relationships with amazing men who just want to make them happy?

Well, more than likely these women understand the power that they have over men. And more importantly, they use this power to HEAL and NURTURE the man that they love.

This is something that ALL men NEED. But like I said before, most guys either don’t know that in order to fully love a woman they must open their hearts to them or even if they do know, they don’t know how to do it.

But you as a woman are in a very unique position. The way you communicate with a man through your words and actions, no matter how subtle, will be the determining factors in whether or not he opens up his heart to you.

Why is it so important for a man to open up his heart to you? Well, in order for him to DECIDE to commit to you, he’s going to have to feel as if a life without you just doesn’t make logical sense.

He’s going to need a deep feeling of emotional security with you, knowing that whether he’s up or down, weak or strong, stoic or emotional, that you’ll always be there for him and that you’ll never PERCEIVE him as weak and vulnerable.

Read that last paragraph again before you read on…

Men love to be seen as strong and capable of handling anything that comes their way. So when things don’t work out as they should or when they experience moments of powerlessness, they need the support of a woman who can heal and nurture their hearts during this time.

Are you the kind of woman that a man can fully trust with his emotions? Or are does your attitude hold him back from giving you full access to his heart?

Give it some thought, and if you feel as if your own interactions with men could use some improvement, begin to develop a more graceful, nurturing energy about you.

Learn what feminine grace is and how to become an irresistible woman that men adore. Because without feminine grace, even if you are able to attract and keep a man in your life, chances are you won’t be able to get him to open up emotionally.

You may find yourself having trouble getting him to commit to you all the way, or even worse, he may never be “all there” with you emotionally. And this is something that no woman wants to end up with.

By David Carter

Learning how to transform your relationship for the better means understanding the give and take in a relationship. This is important, as building a trusting relationship with the right amount of give and take will require you to overcome your fears and insecurities.

Learning how to overcome your fears and insecurities is essential to opening up your personal boundaries, which then allow you to love and be loved unconditionally by another human being.

You can only give more of yourself to someone when you feel as if you can really trust them. You can only enjoy a truly blissful relationship when you’re free from the fears associated with your own insecurities.

And when you reach that point, you can be the most proactive, selfless, and giving person to your partner.

And you’re only free to do this based on how well-defined your personal boundaries are, and how fearless you are in opening AND closing them should you need to.

But don’t worry, nobody’s perfect. And this isn’t an overnight process, because in a lot of cases it takes an intimate relationship to help us work out the kinks in our character.

Build Relationships Based On Principles

If you want to attract and build a phenomenal relationship with a loving partner, what you want to do is develop a “principle-centered” paradigm (your way of looking at the world) in how you make decisions and in how you relate to people.

If you don’t have a principle-centered view of the world, then every decision you make in your relationship will be based on you trying to please others just to be happy.

If you have a principle-centered way of thinking, you’re much more likely to enjoy a more loving relationship since your decisions will be based on trying to attain win-win outcomes for you and your partner.

Without a principle-centered way of thinking, you’ll find yourself in relationships in which the only scenarios you see are all win-lose.

Win-lose outcomes are the ones in which someone ends up unhappy, or as the loser in any given scenario. Whereas win-win is all about finding the best possible solution so that both parties can enjoy the results.

The most successful couples on this planet who seem to have the most amazing relationships have learned to create win-win outcomes for their various conflicts CONSISTENTLY. And how do they do it? By having clear personal boundaries that they can open and close whenever they wish.

Because this aspect of relationships is THAT important, I’d like to suggest a book to you for better understanding this concept. It’s called The Seven Habits of Highly Successful People, and its author is personal development guru, Stephen Covey.

In it, Mr. Covey details the best methods for communicating with your partner (and other people as well) in order to attain more win-win outcomes in your relationships. And you should know by now how important the RIGHT communication is to the success of any relationship.

But what’s even better is how he shows you the best way to approach life when it comes to decision-making that will help you to only welcome people and situations into your life that will add to your happiness and success as opposed to take away from it.

It’s a great book, and it has personally changed my life immensely. And I couldn’t recommend a better book if you want to improve both your life and your intimate relationships in general.

So check it out and apply what you’ve learned.

And hey, don’t be afraid of a little reading. As to quote the great Benjamin Franklin…

“An investment in knowledge pays the best interest.”

I agree completely. Because if you’re trying to learn how to transform your relationship, you’ll need all the great advice you can get your hands on!

By David Carter

Passion is that irrational emotion that we feel for something or someone that gives us that feeling of being alive.

As human beings we’ll do whatever it takes to have passion simply because it puts us in a place of pure ecstasy in which we become less aware of the problems of life.

And when it comes to romantic love, when we feel passion for the person we care about we truly want nothing more than to enjoy their company, their conversation, their touch, and their unconditional love.

Many couples in a long-term relationship soon develop an enduring love for each other that may lack true passion. They may be compassionate towards one another and may truly have a genuine and sincere love, but they may be lacking in the passion department for many different reasons.

You see, passion is a fickle thing, and sometimes life gets in the way and so we neglect partaking in those activities that help to ignite passion. Whether it’s a career, the kids, or some other distraction, these things can cause us to leave passion to chance.

And if you were to ask any old couple that truly has more passion in their relationship, they might tell you that passion is something that must be fanned into flame. In other words, having a more passionate relationship filled not only with companionship but with excitement as well requires work!

How can we all get more passion in our relationships? Well, start off by becoming a more compassion lover and learn how to better appreciate your partner. When you feel a deep sense of sincere love and gratitude for your partner you’ll feel more compelled to enjoy more activities together that spark the flames of passion.

It begins by making passion in your relationship a priority, and getting out of the rut.

For example, you can try doing any or all of the following:

• Do more activities together as a couple that make you feel alive.

• Go on adventures with your partner.

• Go out on fun and unique dates that take you both out of your comfort zone.

• Spice things up in the intimacy department to rekindle your relationship.

But whatever you do, you MUST get out of your comfort zone!

What you want to do is force a situation in which the only comfort lies in each other. This is a great way to stimulate more excitement in you relationship.

If you’re married, work on spicing up your sex life as well. Why? Because in order for true passion to exist there needs to be stimulation and excitement.

If you can’t get excited about something you won’t be passionate about it. So find activities and projects that make you feel as if time is flying by.

Just like a hobby, keep in mind that passion for your relationship starts by becoming more interested in your partner and the relationship itself.

The couples who have more passionate relationships are, unsurprisingly, relationship-focused individuals. They make it the number one priority in their lives.

So when you focus on something more and more, you’ll be surprised how much passion you can develop for it.

By David Carter

If you want to have more success with women and dating, there’s something you must come to terms with…

Women will always be somewhat of an enigma to men.

For example, have you ever had any of these thoughts:

• Why isn’t she returning my calls?

• She agreed to go on a date, but why did she cancel at the last minute?

• She flirts with me, but she gets annoyed when I try to make a move!

• She complains about the guys she normally dates, but always rejects nice guys like me.

At times, the way women act can be very irritating to us guys. It’s almost as if they enjoy telling us one thing only to turn around to do the exact opposite.

This kind of behavior can drive us guys NUTS!

And it only becomes even more irritating when we think that we finally understand the way women think.

I want you to envision something with me for a minute.

Let’s say that a woman you’ve just met began to show you all of the obvious signs of interest:

• She approaches him

• She flirts and keeps the conversation going

• She insisted that you both meet up for a date

Then, let’s say that at the last minute she calls you and cancels on you. And to make matters worse, she refuses to return your phone calls or text messages afterwards.

Maybe this HAS happened to you before. And when it does, you’ve probably scratched your head in a dumbfounded state of disbelief as to how things could have ended like this when she showed definite signs of interest in YOU.

Well, here’s the deal buddy…

Sometimes women are going to flake out on you.

You heard me right.

They’re going to say one thing and then do the complete opposite.

And you know what the worse part about it is? It’s the fact that you never really have a clue as to when a woman is going to do something flaky.

I’m serious.

You both could be having the time of your life together, and then she up and decides to do something completely inexplicable and unexpected.

So with this in mind, us guys should really ponder the question…

What goes through a woman’s mind when she meets a man?

Well, from my personal experience, the MAIN difference between men and women in this case really comes down to one simple thing:

How we perceive each situation that we’re faced with.

Let me explain…

Basically, men are highly logical creatures by nature. So in his mind he may think something like:

Oh, she’s flirting with me! She’s probably interested. Yeah, she definitely wants me.

Now, a woman on the other hand would use emotions to figure things out. She may think something like:

He seems like he’s interested, but I wonder if he really likes me? I know, I’ll test him to find out for sure.

Yes my friend, a woman will test you, day in day out. And it never stops, so get used to it.

What usually happens in a lot of situations is that a woman might be genuinely interested in a guy, decides to test him (usually subconsciously), and ends up finding out that he’s not the kind of guy that can “handle” her.

What I mean is this…

In most cases I’ve observed AND experienced during dating is that us guys often don’t recognize the test, so we fail them.  We fail them over and over again.

Usually when a woman tests a man, she wants to know what KIND of man you are. She wants to see what you stand for and what you’re made of.

She wants to see if you’re the kind of guy that can CHALLENGE her.

Women do these mind games instinctively. For the most part, they can’t even help it.

They must test you in order to get a specific emotional response either from you or from themselves.

For example, if a woman flirts with you without wanting to meet up, chances are she’s feeding her ego. She simply loves having you around because flirting with you makes HER feel sexy.

You’re basically providing her with a service.

If this has happened to you, I’ll give you a moment of silence to weep.

…….

And we’re back.

Another example is if a woman doesn’t return your phone calls or your texts. You probably failed to dial up enough chemistry during your last interaction with her so she doesn’t feel that emotional connection with you.

Want another?

What about when a woman flakes on you and cancels a date? It’s possible that she’s trying to create a situation where she’s in the position of power. She’s really trying to see just how much she can dominate your actions and MAKE you chase her.

I remember one woman I dated storm off after I teased her intensely. And of course, like the fool I was back then, I chased after her.

I felt a deep knot in my stomach for the rest of the night because I know she’d won. It made me sick…literally!

And only after some self-reflecting and intense reading (of material like this), I realized what was happening and what I could do to avoid falling prey to women’s mind games.

But what can a guy really do to avoid falling prey to these mind games?

Great question! But it’s a tough one to answer.

Some women are simply UNAWARE of what they REALLY want from men. Others women would only date men who pass their tests. And others simply enjoy the feeling of control they have over men.

So to prevent yourself from imminent failure, it’s essential that you:

• Understand the motivations of different kinds of women.

• Learn to identify situations in which you’re being tested.

• IMMEDIATELY challenge a woman when she starts flaking on you.

Truth is, you can’t control how a woman will act around you. However, you can communicate to a woman that you’re the kind of man that won’t put up with any crappy behavior from her or anyone else.

THIS one shift in your attitude will make you more attractive to higher quality women, and it may even get you a great girlfriend. And here’s an interesting paradox…

When you first meet a woman, the more she sees that you’re more than willing to walk away from a situation that doesn’t meet your standards, the more of an interest she’s going to take in you.

Challenging a woman is one of the best ways to avoid manipulative behavior AND pass her tests at the same time. And THIS my friend, is one of the keys to having more success with women and dating.

And here’s one more bonus tip that’ll help you discover how to REALLY sexually attract ANY woman you meet…

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By Sara Kyle

Whether I’m out with my girlfriends or I’m having a great chat with my female relatives, the conversation inevitably swings towards questions about men.

What do men want from women?

How do I learn how to captivate a man completely?

These are questions that can affect women of any age. And trying understand what men want from women is something that we all struggle with from time to time.

So if you want to make him adore you, here are a few tips that you should consider.

1. Be Your Most Beautiful Self

No, really. Many guides that tell you how to captivate a man give you this advice, but they don’t know why. The truth is that if you aren’t being yourself, you’re going to lose out somewhere down the line.

Men can pick up on the traits that tell them that you are faking an interest or suppressing a part of yourself. These cues are unattractive, and when they sense that this is what you are doing, they are going to split!

Now keep in mind the being your most beautiful self is simply learning how to become the best version of yourself. Becoming a high-quality woman will make you irresistible to men.

And more importantly, it will make you a magnet for attracting your own Mr. Right and making him fall in love with you.

2. Have a Life of Your Own

If you want to know how to make him adore you, I’ve got a secret to share with you…

Have a life of your own.

Seriously! If you don’t have a life of your own, he isn’t going to be interested. No healthy guy wants a woman who was just siting around waiting for him.

His “She’s-Too-Clingy” detector will go off immediately if he thinks you don’t have anything else going on for you.

Being busy with volunteer work or classes doesn’t mean that your cutting down on your time with him. It means that he will see your time as something more valuable, and he will be honored that you choose to spend your free time with him.

3. Captivate Him in Conversation

During conversation, if you want to make him to adore you, avoid focusing on yourself too much. Instead, talk about the things that you are experiencing together or the interesting things that you have observed in the world.

This is a great way to get a reputation as a woman who knows what’s going on in the world.

But always remember to be authentic, and don’t fake your interests just to please him either!

Whenever the conversation turns on you, tell him about the places that you’ve been to, or your interesting friends. Ask him fun and interesting questions about himself (his most favorite topic) and watch him open up to you and lead the conversation towards his passions and dreams.

And don’t be fooled into thinking that men don’t want a woman who talks. It’s just that they’d prefer a woman who can talk about things that are interesting to them as well.

4. Be Bold Yet Feminine and Graceful

Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself. A high-quality man loves a woman who has high standards and personal boundaries that she’s not afraid to defend. A woman that can stand up for herself is very attractive to such men.

Be your own advocate and don’t be afraid to let people know what is on your mind. Shy women get passed over more often than not, and it is always in your best interest to speak up.

Of course, this doesn’t mean that you should say EVERYTHING that pops up in your head. Use your discretion and learn how communicate with men in such a way that expressing yourself doesn’t come off as being crass or unrefined.

You will always attract that which you are. Never forget that.

So whether you want to attract Mr. Right or improve your relationship with your husband or boyfriend, if you want to become the kind of woman that men adore you must learn how to captivate him with both your inner and outer beauty.

By Felicity Morrison

Whether you’ve been together five years or twenty years, romance should never die. Every now and then you need to reignite the sparks in your relationship and get him to fall in love with you again.

We all know the first couple of years in a relationship are all hot and heavy. New love is all about romance and passion. You can’t get enough of each other.

Unfortunately, all too soon, the euphoria of new love wears off and romance takes a back seat to life. Don’t worry it happens in most relationships.

It happened in mine and there’s a good chance it can happen in yours if you’re not careful to keep things interesting.

You wake up one day and the all-consuming passion you had for each other is gone, or at least sleeping. It doesn’t happen overnight like that, but sure feels like it.

We simply get comfortable in life and forget the heat and spice we once found with each other.

Once the realization sinks in that you need to find romance again, make it your mission to get the romance back and get him to fall in love with you again, get him to love you more.

Sounds easy, but it’s not.

In order to get him to love you more, don’t hold back; remember the things that turned him on in the beginning, use your imagination, be creative.

Here are a few things you can try to get him to love you more than he already does:

• Leave him little notes in his lunchbox, on his pillow, in his underwear drawer to let him know how much you love him. (I left notes everywhere. They started out romantic I love yous, but grew into erotic and sensual innuendos reminding him of the passion we once had.)

• Send your man spicy texts and romantic messages like “I want you”, “I need you”, or “I love you more today than I did yesterday but not as much as tomorrow.”

• Learn how to seduce your man with words by stroking his manly ego. Tell him things like, “Do you know how sexy you are?” or “I love it when you touch me like that, I can’t get enough of you.” Phrases like these will remind him of just how irresistible you think he is.

• Send him a risqué e-card reminding him of what he has at home. Make it personal by adding a picture of you holding a sappy sign saying “you own my heart” or “you hold the key to my heart.”

• Don’t forget the little things you do for him that say I love you and that shows him your appreciation. (My husband loves me to help him with projects around the house. At lunchtime during one of those projects, I served him dressed in a French maid’s uniform.)

• Find that perfect greeting card that says everything your heart wants to tell him. (My husband did this for me and I fell more in love with him.)

You’re not alone in your attempt to get him to love you more. I’m there too.

My vivid imagination and creativity were very useful in wooing my husband. But while you’re trying to get him to fall in love with you again, don’t be surprised if you fall in love with him all over again too.

By Jasmine Jones

You’ve found the perfect guy. He’s wonderful, loving, caring, funny, well-educated and financially set.

There’s just one problem.

Your biological clock is ticking away, and Mr. Wonderful shows no signs of seriously committing to you at any point of time in the near future. Are there any ways to get him to commit to you without forcing the issue?

After watching quite a few of my female friends confront this dilemma, some successfully and others not-so-successfully, I’ve figured out what works and what doesn’t.

Here are four sure-fire ways to get a guy to commit to you for life or get him out of your life so you can find the one who will give you his heart:

1. Give Him the Gift of Missing You

One of the best ways to get him to commit to you is to give him his space and at times, make yourself scarce.

Now, I realize that this tip may seem counter-intuitive, but if you want to get him to commit, you’ve got to be willing to give him his space. Men don’t like to be smothered.

Encourage him to spend time with his friends doing the things he loves to do. When he realizes you don’t need his constant attention, he will decide on his own that he wants to spend time with you.

As a bonus, his friends will think you’re pretty cool too. And when he realizes that you do have a life of your own, he’ll begin to find you even more attractive.

Men are hunters by nature. And although a man may want to be chased by women what he actually needs is a great woman to pursue.

It’s all apart of the game of romance, love, and attraction; so don’t complain about it. Learn the rules, unlock the secrets to his heart, and let him pursue you.

2. Always Be a Good Sport

If you want to get him to commit all on his own and with enthusiasm, become the kind of woman that he’ll actually ENJOY being around.

Nobody wants to spend time with someone who’s miserable or boring. Guys thrive on adventure and excitement, so you should be willing to try new things with a fun attitude.

Save the chick flicks for nights out with your girlfriends whenever you can. Because one of the best ways to get him to commit is to show him that you are up for whatever he wants to do.

Even better is when you figure out what he likes and then initiate the experience.

Is he a sports fan? Order a couple tickets to his see his favorite team in action.

Is he an avid fisherman? Pack a picnic lunch, throw the fishing poles in the car and surprise him with a day on the lake.

When you show him that his interests are important to you, his heart will be yours

3. Refrain From Nagging Him About Anything

One of the best ways to get him to commit is to give him the gift of leading the relationship. And what this means is…do not nag the poor guy into giving you what you want!

Nagging is the death knell to any relationship. If you want to get a guy to commit his life to you, don’t nag him about commitment, cleaning, calling you, being with you, eating right or exercising.

Don’t nag him about anything, because nagging women make men run for the hills. Did you get that? Don’t nag him about anything!

Instead, show him that you appreciate his every little effort to make you happy. The more you do this, the more he will want to improve.

4. At the Right Time, Let Him Know How You Feel About Him

There comes a time in every relationship when you just know if it is the right one or not. You owe it to yourself and your guy to cut the strings if you know it isn’t going to work out over the long haul.

If you love him, be willing to put your true feelings on the line and ask him if he feels the same way about you. He may have a hard time putting his feelings into words and feel grateful that you’ve opened the door to serious conversation about commitment.

Knowing how you honestly feel about him may make it easier for him to commit to you. Discuss your thoughts and dreams for a future together, but don’t try to force something that isn’t there.

Do not force your own agenda on any man. It’s better to find the man who can give you the commitment that will satisfy your heart than to try and force one on a man who is not ready or willing.

Never make finding true love about him. What you should be looking for is the right relationship, not the right man.

You should never make it all about him. Because the right man will give you the right relationship and the kind of commitment that will fulfill you.

So if none of these ways to get him to commit on his own works, he might not be the right one for you. And if you come to this sometimes heart-breaking (but liberating) conclusion, don’t be afraid to let him go so that you are free to find the one who is!

By David Carter

Always keep in mind that there are many secrets to a man’s heart that many women (especially younger women) don’t understand.

Most men are not masters of sorting through their emotions like women, so when the time comes for them to do so, it can be overwhelming and make them feel powerless.

And it is during times like this that they need the support and nurturing of a woman with a delicate touch and a graceful spirit.

But you might be thinking to yourself, “But all I want to do for him is nurture him, love him, and heal him!”

That’s fine.

But although your intentions may be good, if you’ve still been having difficulty getting men to open up to you or to commit to you then you should examine your behavior to see what it is you’re REALLY communicating with the men in your life.

If a man thinks you don’t need him as it relates to his role as a protector and a provider, he can’t love you completely and open up his heart.

If a man thinks you might perceive him as weak and powerless, he won’t be able to give you access to his most intimate parts.

And if a man thinks that you’re only with him to promote your own agenda (whether it’s financial security or status), he’ll hold back from you.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s okay to want these things, but if he feels as if you don’t love him for him alone, he’s going to have some doubts about you that might hold him back from taking the relationship to the next level.

You may not realize it, but a man can subconsciously tell whether or not he can trust you with his heart based on his everyday interactions with you.

Ask yourself these questions and really give them some thought…

• Does your communication tell him that you’re a healer or a ball-buster?

• Does your communication with him tell him that he can be vulnerable with you or does it tell him that he should always be on guard, emotionally?

• Does your communication with him signify UNCONDITIONAL love without strings attached or does it tell him you’re only in it for a season or a reason?

• Does your communication with him reveal an extremely judgmental and cynical side of you?

• And finally, does your communication allow him to fail and to be human, or does it demand that he must always be your perfect prince?

The healing and nurturing spirit of the right woman is priceless to a man. The intimate love of a woman of understanding, compassion, and grace is irreplaceable, and a good man will do almost anything to have access to such qualities in a woman.

And keep in mind that he doesn’t need (or want) you to be his mother, but he does want the feminine, nurturing support of a love that is non-judgmental.

If you think of yourself as a heart surgeon, going in with a delicate touch for the sake of mending and repairing rather than emasculating and demolishing, you’ll have a perfect picture of what a man needs from a woman.

He needs to feel as if you’re qualified for the job. Because he knows that once you’re in there (his heart)…there’s pretty much nothing he can do about it. Once he’s trusted you with his heart, the deeper more intimate and vulnerable sides of himself, he knows that it’s too late.

Because he knows that only two things you’re going to do at that point:

1. Help to nurture and heal the wounds of his past and future failures, or…

2. Use his shortcomings and insecurities against him whenever he falls short.

This is why they say that a woman can either make or break a man. Not because he allows her to have control of his life, but because there’s no turning back once he’s given her full access to his heart.

But what kind of woman are you?

Can you love him unconditionally and still treat him with respect and make him feel like a man, especially when he’s most vulnerable?

What is your behavior telling him? Is your brand of love non-judgmental?

Do you make him feel like a king or like a chump? And can he really trust you with his all?

Give it some thought. Because whether you’re looking for your own Mr. Right or you want your knight-in-shining-armor to take things to the next level in your relationship, learning the secrets to a man’s heart can transform your love life for the better.