By Alexandria Taylor

Most husbands probably don’t think about “seducing” their wives – I know mine doesn’t. Men seem to think that once they are married they don’t need to make the effort anymore, and that sex is just a given.

But even if sex IS given to you on a regular basis, it is still worth learning how to seduce your wife. Chances are that she will be more enthusiastic and that sex will be more passionate, more intimate, and more exciting if you take the time to seduce her.

In my opinion, the key to seduction if you are already married is not difficult. It really comes down to three things: pay attention to your wife and listen to her; get to know what she likes; do the things she likes as often as you can.

Maybe your wife wants candles and romance? Maybe she wants you to tell her how hot she is and come on strong? You won’t know unless you take the time to get to know what she likes. If you want to know how to get your wife in the mood, ask your wife, and then really listen to what she says.

The Art of Seduction

The art of seduction is to get somebody (in this case your wife) to want to have sex with you by subtly tempting them into it. What will be tempting to one woman might be a turn-off for another.

The key here is communication – what does your wife like? If you don’t know (or don’t care) find out, and then focus on what you know she loves.

Most women can be seduced pretty easily by the man they love, and taking the time to focus on your wife doesn’t mean that your needs won’t be met; chances are that by taking a little bit of time to appreciate her and meet her needs, you will make her feel loved and wanted, and she will repay you with amazing sex

But always remember that seducing her begins by first learning how to love your wife. Because it’s the love and compassion that you show to her on a day to day basis that will make seducing her much, much easier when the times comes.

1. Set the Mood

Make the effort to create a seductive space in your home. Light candles if you have them (and buy some if you don’t). Play music (this can whatever type of music you and your wife like).

Set the atmosphere without your wife’s knowledge, so that when she gets home from work or finishes up with dinner she will see the effort you have made. The very fact that you have made the effort to create a seductive atmosphere will go a long way towards getting your wife in the mood.

2. Keep it Simple

Lots of sex advice books show you how to “have amazing orgasms” and show you hundreds of new positions to try. But if your wife has a hard time getting in the mood this sort of “advice” can be rather daunting.

If your wife often seems uninterested in sex, go back to basics and make it just about enjoying each other’s company, and enjoying the sensations without worrying about anything else.

3. Initiate Foreplay (and lots of it)

If you want to know how to seduce your wife, you really can’t go wrong by taking some extra time to enjoy foreplay. Learn how to turn your woman on mentally, then start slowly and take your time exploring her body.

Kiss her neck, rub her shoulders, and generally let her know that you want to focus on her for a bit. Chances are she’ll be so thrilled by the attention that it won’t be long before she is begging for more.

4. Get to Know Your Wife

Some women are shy about letting their husbands know what they want or like in bed. If you can get your wife to talk about what she likes (not in interview-style but after a couple of glasses of wine, or during a sensual massage) then you will have some guaranteed tricks for how to get your wife in the mood in the future.

Really listen to what she says and then do whatever it is – maybe it’s a slightly different technique, or a softer or harder touch than you have been giving.

5. Shake Things Up

If you are usually the dominant, aggressive type, try seducing your wife by being extra-gentle and focusing on her needs.

If you are usually more reserved, try telling her how hot she looks, grab her ass (in an appropriate situation) and tell her how much you want to be inside her right now – the shock of a different approach is sure to get her hot.

By David Carter

Want to re-ignite your passion with something new and more exciting than the typical night out, box of chocolates, or flowers? If so, you might want to think of enjoying the great outdoors together with your special someone.

Besides thinking out of the box, be sure to consider your love’s personality type. Are they physically fit and enjoy things like rappelling down a mountain, prefer staying in a romantic lodge, or camping out in the great outdoors in a tent?

If you’re looking for ways to re-ignite the spark in your relationship outdoors, you should already have a good idea of what your partner enjoys.

Following are just a handful of romantic things to do that are sure to reawaken your passion.

1. Romantic Camping Trip

How about a romantic weekend spent camping? It doesn’t necessarily mean you need to “rough it” if you have all the right camping equipment and take the time to find a beautiful, breathtaking location.

Base your amorous camping trip on things you both like to do including hiking to secluded mountain hot springs, kayaking to a tranquil spot for just the two of you along lake shores, and enjoying some mouth watering s’ mores and a great bottle of wine by the fire.

With the right tent, a down filled sleeping bag for two and the light of the moon, you’re guaranteed the perfect, super romantic experience.

2. A Cabin For Two

If camping doesn’t appeal to you consider staying in an intimate cabin or an upscale lodge in the woods. Mother Nature’s beauty works as an aphrodisiac for most couples; something about the fresh air, the many tones of green, the intense quiet and the sighting of a deer or two living free that opens the heart.

A great idea would be to take along a telescope and star gaze, enjoying the clear night skies. If you’re staying near a lake, plan a romantic boat ride followed by a light, romantic dinner at a picnic table or on a blanket you were thoughtful enough to bring along.

3. Pleasurable Sightseeing

Another romantic thing to do is to take a lovely, scenic drive for a day of sight seeing. If you really want to impress your significant other, don’t just race past all the little boutiques, antique stores and farmer’s markets along the way. Try to take your time and enjoy everything you come across.

Besides planning a day full of sightseeing, pay attention to their likes and dislikes. If you know they enjoy shopping, stop and explore along the way. Be spontaneous and you’ll win their heart for sure.

4. Outdoor Fun in the City

Flowers never fail to create a romance ambiance and most cities have plenty of places to explore that showcase them. From your city’s Botanical Gardens to national parks, you really can’t lose by at least spending part of your day enjoying their multi-colored array of flowers.

Another great choice is a visit to the city, strolling along the streets exploring shops and museums, stopping in to a local cafe or chocolate shop and people watching.

5. Exotic Locales

If you want a romantic getaway away from home, if it’s in your budget, plan a romantic vacation somewhere exotic. How about going to Morocco and staying in one of the area’s romantic Riads (hotels) with a luxurious Kasbah like ambiance?

Visiting a city like Morocco provides a magical, romantic getaway where you can go on camel rides, ride a hot air balloon over the unique landscapes, shop in the city squares lively with snake charmers, acrobats and more, in an Indiana Jones like atmosphere.

Also great choices are Paris, the city of love or Italy to create your very own, romantic Tuscan experience.

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By Olivia Nicholas

Every day of your life is riddled with appointments; from running between soccer and ballet practices, PTA meetings, meal planning and prep, to failed attempts at managing five minutes of quiet time to yourself.

Saying you’re a busy parent is the understatement of the century. In the midst of the chaos, it can seem romance has taken a back-burner to the ‘more pressing’ aspects of life.

But your anniversary is coming up and you want to make it special for your spouse. Even though you aren’t able to take a week-long vacation to the exotic location of your dreams, it is possible to have a night you will cherish and remember forever. Enlist the help of a family member, friend, or hire a babysitter to watch your kids and allow you to get away for an evening together.

Fun, Fun, Fun!

Release your inner child with a carefree night at the park. Bring some Nerf guns, a Frisbee, a plastic baseball bat, and some scooters to your favorite park for some friendly competition. If one spouse happens to be more athletically inclined, give each competition a fun twist to even the playing field.

Have an all-out Nerf war, complete with war paint and camouflage. Try a Frisbee throwing contest, seeing who can throw the furthest and straightest. Set up targets to aim for with plastic baseballs.

And if the park has a nice hill without traffic or parked cars, have a race downhill on scooters. Pack your favorite finger foods to finish off the evening with a picnic while watching the sun set in each other’s arms.

Quiet Romance

If you are able to have someone watch the kids overnight, look into bed and breakfast locations in nearby cities. Chances are there are some amazing undiscovered treasures not too far from home. The overnight cost is comparable to a hotel or motel, but the romance of a bed and breakfast is far more than that found at any corporate chain location.

Let the managers or owners know beforehand that you will be celebrating your anniversary, and they are likely to go above and beyond, making your stay simply magical.

Get Moving

When was the last time you were able to hit up the bowling alley without any kids tagging along? Grab a bite to eat at your favorite pizza place and head to the bowling alley alone together.

Before you begin each game, guess what your final score will be after the tenth frame and decide on a prize for the person who guesses closest. Assign romantic values to each spare and strike. Give a passionate kiss for each strike and a friendly booty tap or hug whenever someone gets a spare.

Don’t be afraid of a PDA-filled game, after all the kids are not with you. After the game is over, find the difference between the guessed score and actual score to determine the winner and hurry home to enjoy the prize (wink, wink).

Perhaps you could both use some fresh air and an escape from all the stresses of life in general. Search nearby trails and plan a romantic hike together. Once you reach your destination, set up camp for the night.

Explore all the wonders of nature, sit around a crackling campfire, feed each other s’mores, spend time staring at the stars within one another’s arms, and snuggle in your tent. Taking a break from technology and getting away alone together is a great way to put a spark back into your relationship.

If you aren’t a fan of the wilderness, set up a tent in your backyard. Or if all else fails, have a sleepover together in your living room.

A Song in Your Heart

Even if you may not be musically inclined, chances are you enjoy good music. Music, with or without lyrics, can bring out strong emotions and cause lovers to swoon.

Begin your musical anniversary date with a sweet, handwritten note attached to a Symphony chocolate bar. If you or your spouse plays an instrument, it can be fun to head to your local music store to browse various instruments, music, and accessories.

If that really isn’t your thing, browse an entertainment store and discover some new CDs to enjoy together. And be sure to end your night at a local café or bistro playing live music. Ask the love of your life to dance with you and let your hair down for an evening of pure romance.

Wherever you choose to celebrate your anniversary, be sure that the focus remains on you, your spouse, and the love you share for one another. Don’t allow talk about kids or work to make its way into your evening conversation. Simply enjoy some uninterrupted time together, rediscovering one another and remembering all the reasons you got married in the first place.

About the Author: Olivia Nicholas is a busy mom, wife and writer for Storkie. She believes that keeping the romance and fire alive can take a bit of creativity and thought.  She loves to blog, travel, read and write.

By Sara Kyle

It may surprise you, but some of the most romantic weekend getaway destinations are actually some of the most populated cities in the United States. Here are a few of the top romantic cities in the U.S. that you might want to keep in mind when planning your next great romantic escape:

1. Manhattan.

A romantic and exciting weekend might just await you in Manhattan. You can choose to stay at the Marriott Hotel on Broadway if you’re a theater lover, or reserve a room at the Plaza Hotel that has views of Central Park. The Mandarin Hotel and Spa is ideal if both of you enjoy being pampered, as they offer wonderful couples massages and a variety of other amenities.

Manhattan has something for everyone, regardless of your budget, and it’s not difficult to see why it is one of the most romantic weekend getaway destinations in America. Whether you’d prefer to order in for room service or want a night out on the town, there’s always love in the air when you’re in Manhattan.

Even though millions of tourists travel there each year, there’s always a place to be alone with your better half. A carriage ride through the famous Central Park or an evening watching an Opera at Lincoln Center will provide the perfect moment of solitude for the both of you.

2. San Francisco.

This California city offers just about any couple the chance to add or reignite the spark to their relationship. With its seaside charm, rolling landscape, and phenomenal cuisine; San Francisco hotels are a great choice for a romantic getaway. In the Nob Hill area, there’s the Farimont Hotel, and downtown you can stay in the centrally located W San Francisco Hotel.

If you’re there to take in the sights, then the Mandarin Oriental is the obvious pick, as it is renowned for its fantastic views of the city.

It’s no wonder that people who have had the opportunity to visit San Francisco have left their heart there, as there are a wide range of unique things to do during your stay. You can pay a visit to Ghirardelli Square if you have a sweet tooth, and pick up some of their infamous chocolate, or take a walk along Fisherman’s Wharf to smell the fresh salt air and take a look at Alcatraz Island before going to dinner.

There are a number of wonderful seafood  restaurants in San Francisco, such as McCormick and Kuleto’s. If you’re in the mood for an after dinner drink, then O’Neill’s Irish Pub is definitely worth a try.

3. Las Vegas.

You’ll find that there are no clocks in any of Las Vegas’ casinos, so time will seem to stand still while you’re in this lively romantic getaway destination. The weather is always fantastic in this city, and perfect for spending long days beside the pool, followed by an evening spent trying your luck at a casino or taking in a show.

Where else can you find a gondola in America besides the famous Venetian Hotel, where you can enjoy your stay amongst a truly romantic backdrop, or reserve a room at the Hotel Bellagio to enjoy their salon and spa. If you want to experience something truly unique, then consider staying at the Mirage, where you can take in the sights of their indoor gardens and aquarium at the Secret Garden.

Las Vegas fits any budget, and provides romance for any couple and it is definitely one of the top romantic cities in the U.S. in you love the hustle and bustle of city life.

By Luke Daniels

If you want to learn how to love your wife, there’s two things that you must always keep in mind: Love your wife with passion and learn how to make her feel beautiful.

And while it’s true that a marriage may take a lot of work, that doesn’t necessarily mean that it has to be excessively difficult. Some people will tell you that marriage isn’t easy, but more people should be saying that marriage can be fun!

With all the reports that we get about divorce and estrangement and infidelity, it can be hard to remember that you are linked to such a wonderful woman. And if you want to romance your wife, this is one of the first things that you need to remember.

As for me, I love my wife deeply and passionately, and one of the key things that I do to reinforce this is that I think about all the fun I have with her. So here are a few ideas to help you to show your wife more love and compassion in your marriage:

1. Give Her Sweet Surprises

When guys think about surprising their wives, they think about things like cruises and fur coats. Those things are certainly nice, but they’re big. Who can come up with a mink jacket every week?

When it comes to the woman who loves you, it really is the thought that counts. Surprise her with something small but meaningful, whether it’s a piece of candy that she loves or that book she’s been meaning to buy.

2. Make Out With Her…Passionately

When thinking about how to love your wife, don’t forget the physical aspect. Couples that engage in physical touch are way more connected.

It doesn’t mean that you need to get hot and heavy every time you are out of the public eye; just take the time to have a quick make-out session on the way out the door or when you are waiting for the laundry to finish up. A short, impassioned kiss can go a long way towards bringing the spark back to your marriage.

3. Help Out With the Cleaning

When trying to romance your wife, you’ll find that there may be some problems if you’re trying to get ‘frisky’ on a pile of clean laundry that you left on the bed. When she’s out, take the time to clean up your bedroom (or some other room in the house) from top to bottom.

Dust, sweep, make the bed with fresh sheets and do everything that you can to make it an enticing place to play. If you want to go for the extra points, have her favorite beverage chilling on the nightstand or some roses petals strewn on the comforter.

Go the extra mile for her and come up with ways to make her life a little more easier, beginning at home. This is a great way to really impress your woman and make her desire you even more!

4. Talk to Her

As you learn how to love your wife, remember that you really, really need to communicate. The reality is that people change. You are not necessarily the same man that she married, and she is not necessarily the same woman.

Things change, goals and dreams change, and you need to be centered towards the person that you are married to, not the one you think you are married to. Talk to her, and don’t just ask about the day to day stuff, either. Ask her what she thinks and feels and in general, just make sure that you know your wife better than anyone else.

5. Play Games With Her

One thing that gets hammered home on television and in the movies is that spouses need to support each other. Sure, you carry your end of the bills, you split the household chores and other things like that, but when was the last time you had fun together?

Even if you just play a board game a few times a week or you head out to the arcade together, remember to play together as well. If you’re not used to playing board games, ask her hypothetical questions, like what would happy if aliens invaded tomorrow? Use your imaginations together and get a little silly.

6. Speak Well of Your Wife

When you are talking with your friends or your family, take the time to praise your wife. This is a simple way to be more romantic and this is something that definitely gets around. You’ll also find that this is a good way to let her know that you are on her side.

Brag about her talents or her skills, talk about how good she is at her job and how gorgeous you think she is. Don’t be afraid to let everyone know what a knockout wife you have.

7. Share Experiences Together

One problem that happens as couples get older is that they start living life side by side rather than together. Whether you simply want to go to a fun show together or you want to hike together, create experiences that allow you to interact with one another.

Go on adventures together and don’t forget that your wife will always be your number one ‘partner in crime.’

By Sara Kyle

If you’re looking to add a little extra something special to your Valentine’s Day this year, then you may want to consider purchasing some romantic candles to surprise your Valentine with this February 14^th.

Candles can often be just what you need to rekindle the spark in your relationship, and can set the perfect mood to make it a romantic day (or night).

Just about any candle will do. However, choosing a romantic candle that has a unique shape, color, or fragrance will show that you put a little extra effort into making your Valentine’s Day a truly special event.

Here are a few things to remember when picking out that perfect candle:

1. Choosing the Right Shape and Size Candle

The ideal romantic candles for Valentine’s Day are the ones that are rather small and adorable. They can be larger, if you prefer, especially if you can find a more sizable one that is perfectly suited for the special occasion.

Candles that you should be on the lookout for are the type that includes a heart or cherub design, or ones that have real pressed flowers lining the outside. The candle you ultimately choose all depends upon your preference and taste.

2. Picking the Perfect Colored Candle

The color of the Valentine’s candle you’d like to give your loved one can really be any shade, so long as it goes along with the theme you’ve chosen for the special day (if you’ve chosen a theme, that is).

Typically reds, pinks, and whites compliment Valentine’s Day very nicely. If you can’t find a shade that you like, then try adding decorative elements to a solid color.

For instance, you can place ribbon or lace on a solid colored candle, or cut out some heart shapes and glue them onto the outside. You can achieve a romantic presentation with very little cost or effort.

3. Deciding Upon the Candle’s Fragrance

The fragrance of the candle you choose will make a rather large impact upon the mood you’re trying to set on Valentine’s Day. Picking a romantic candle that involves floral or sweet scents is often ideal.

However, more sensual scents can also be a great addition to your romantic day and can really help to set the mood if you’re looking to spice things up this Valentine’s Day.

By Sara Kyle

Valentine’s roses are, beyond a doubt, the perfect gift to give your Valentine this February 14th. They are a timeless way to show someone your true feelings, and will brighten just about anyone’s day.

Roses come in a variety of colors, however, so you must know that these different colors have different meanings. So if you’re not quite sure which rose will be ideal of your valentine, not to worry! I’ve put together a few tips to help you choose the perfect rose for Valentine’s Day.

First of all, when it comes to love, not all roses are alike, as each color signifies a certain type of love. The shade of the rose that you choose to place in their bouquet will ultimately determine the message that you are sending to your beloved.

Typically, red roses express true love and passion. However, every shade of red symbolizes subtly symbolizes something unique.

For instance, fiery red conveys passion, while cardinal red expresses desire. Here are a few of the most popular Valentine’s day rose colors and their meanings:

Red Roses – These roses are a Valentine’s Day tradition, and are the gift that is most often associated with this romantic holiday. This is fitting, given the fact that these red roses symbolize romantic love. Giving red roses can be a bit pricey, however, so it’s a good idea to shop around in order to find the best ones for your Valentine.

Purple Roses – Purple roses signify eternal love, while the lighter shades, such as lavender and lilac express love at first sight or the beginning of true feelings. Thus, they are typically ideal for newer couples or for those who have been in love for a number of years. Purple roses can be a very romantic way to say “I love you” to your partner in a unique way.

Orange Roses – Orange (or coral) roses signify desire, and are the perfect rose to purchase for Valentine’s Day if your love has not quite reached the love a red rose will convey. Rather than symbolizing the intense desire and attraction of red roses, the orange rose will often signify a love that is on its way to becoming that which the red rose expresses.

By April Freeman

Are you feeling like your relationship is in a rut? Do you not know how to fix a boring relationship? You may feel like you have fallen out of love with your partner, but the real issue may be that you need to learn how to rekindle the spark in your relationship.

Over the years, many couples feel like their relationships are beginning to stagnate. Day after day, these couples go through the motions with one another, but never feel like they are truly connecting.

Often, both partners are truly committed to one another, but wish that they could somehow figure out how to rekindle the love and find a way back to the passion that used to define their relationship.

First of all, if you are experiencing this, you should realize that this is completely normal. Almost all people in long-term relationships experience times of loneliness, boredom and frustration.

And since you are reading these love tips, it is likely that you don’t necessarily want out of the relationship, but you just want to bring back the warmth and excitement.

So if you are unsure about how to fix a boring relationship, why not try these four suggestions?

1. Share a Hobby

Sometimes when couples get in a rut, they simply need something new to talk about. Choosing a new, interesting hobby that the two of you can enjoy together can give you more interesting topics of conversation to pursue.

Is there a hobby that you have always wanted to try? You may want to sign up for a short-term class. Even if your partner is not terribly interested in the hobby itself, he may enjoy taking a few weeks of classes just to spend time with you.

Some couples enjoy gardening together, while others might take an art class. Many couples have found a connection pursuing photography, hunting, hiking, tennis or fishing.

Be willing to try a hobby that your partner suggests, so that she will be more willing to try a hobby that was your idea.

2. Remember the Past

Think back to what first attracted you to your partner. Was it her sense of humor, or was it his gentle nature? Did her zest for life or his quick wit draw you like a fly to honey?

Most likely, your partner is still the same person, but sometimes life can get in the way of his expressing his true nature. Think of ways that you can give her the freedom to be the person with whom you first fell in love.

If a demanding infant is sapping her enthusiasm for life and love, find childcare for an entire day so that the two of you can get reacquainted.

If workplace stress is causing him to be frustrated with life and short with you, gently confide that you miss seeing him enjoy his life. Ask if there is anything that you can do to relieve his stress, and try to talk him into spending an entire weekend relaxing.

3. Retrain Your Brain to See the Positive

If you look long enough at anything, you will find something that you do not like. Some people focus so much on the negative traits of their partners that they forget that there are enjoyable traits in her character too.

As a result, the negative partner may complain constantly and become overly critical.

If you retrain your mind to focus on the good things that you appreciate about your partner, you will fall in love with him all over again. You will find yourself thinking, “Who cares if he leaves his socks in the floor and snores loudly? He cleans up the kitchen for me and always cheers me up when I am upset.”

4. Avoid Comparisons

Comparisons inevitably lead to discontentment. Do not make the mistake of comparing your partner to those of your friends. You have no idea what your friends’ partners are like to live with.

Your girlfriend’s husband may give her fabulous gifts and take her to Tahiti, but you may not realize that he can be arrogant and condescending at times. Your buddy’s wife may look great and be a fabulous cook, but you don’t know that she is terrible with money and a little lazy.

To have an amazing relationship that makes you happy, you must realize that no one is perfect. At least the faults of your partner are ones that you already know how to handle.

When you know how to rekindle the spark in your relationship, you will learn to recognize when your relationship begins to stagnate, and you can be proactive in livening things up. You don’t have to spend the rest of your life in boredom.

Get busy, and spice up your love life!

By April Freeman

Does it surprise you how critical your partner is of her appearance? You may wonder how you can help her see the beauty that you appreciate every day.

If you are unsure how to make her feel beautiful, you need to find some good strategies that you can use to help her see herself the way that you see her.

Women face amazing pressure to look just right in our society. Every day, the modern woman is bombarded with images on television and in magazines of how an attractive woman should look.

The average woman cannot measure up to the airbrushed photos of models and movie stars, and, as a result, most women feel insecure about their looks.

Most men do not understand how important it is for a woman to feel beautiful. When a woman feels pretty, she feels strong, confident and happy. She will be ready to take on whatever comes her way.

Helping her feel beautiful must extend far beyond saying, “You look fine, dear.” By using these five strategies, she will begin to understand that, even though she may look nothing like a Hollywood actress, you still think she is the hottest and most beautiful woman on the planet.

1. Tell Her Why She is Pretty

Most men do try to tell their wives and girlfriends that they find them attractive. But to be truly effective, you must find creative ways to communicate how lovely you think she is.

Instead of just saying, “You’re beautiful,” go into detail about exactly why you think that she is pretty.

Does her dress accentuate all the right curves? Does the color of her sweater complement her eyes, or does her smile always brighten your day? By being specific in your compliments, she will know that you notice how she looks.

2. Go Past Outer Beauty

Many people often overlook the beauty that is found within a woman. If you want to make her feel beautiful, do not neglect to mention the parts of her character that make her a beautiful person.

Do you appreciate the fact that she is loving, kind or compassionate? Is she a great listener, a generous friend, or an industrious worker? Be sure to regularly compliment her on the many roles that she plays in the lives of so many people.

3. Know How to Make Her Feel Special

When a woman’s partner goes out of his way to speak her love language, she will feel beautiful. If she values time spent with you, special gifts, verbal affirmation or an affectionate touch, learn to regularly give her what she needs to feel special.

If you have no idea how to make her feel special, ask her what specific things you could do to make her feel loved. Then you must make an effort to do those things regularly.

4. Be Sensitive to What She May Be Going Through

If she is struggling with her weight, facing chemotherapy, pregnant or just having a bad hair day, be sure to go out of your way to pamper her a bit.

Chances are that any of these scenarios might make a woman feel terribly undesirable, but use these times to emphasize that you value her for far more than just how she looks on the outside.

Learn how to communicate with your woman, especially when she’s feeling emotional. Find ways to compliment her, even if she is not looking her best.

Tell her about her radiant smile, gorgeous eyes or soft, smooth skin. Recognize her best qualities and do your best to remind her of them.

5. Show Her That She is Your One and Only

No woman wants to have competition flung in her face, and if you check out other women, comment on the cheerleaders at a football game, or flirt with her girlfriends, that is exactly what you are doing in her mind.

When a man comments on other women in a suggestive manner, his partner will take it personally. The woman will usually think that if she were prettier, thinner or had larger breasts, he would not be thinking of other women that way.

Save the guy talk for guy time, and do not do it around your partner. Treasure your partner’s affection and treat her like a lady. She really doesn’t want to hear that you think that your waitress is hot.

A woman can be very conscious about how beautiful she appears to others, especially the man in her life.  But when a man knows how to make her feel beautiful and special, she will stop agonizing over her appearance.

She will be able to face whatever comes her way with confidence, knowing that she is secure in her partner’s affection.

By Luke Daniels

Are you in a serious romantic relationship with someone you truly love even though you live in a different city, town, or even country? Or perhaps you’re married but your work requires you to constantly travel, leaving your partner home alone longing to be with you again?

Sometimes life doesn’t make it easy for us to fall and stay in love, but that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try to make things work!

And because of this, you probably want to know how to keep the romance alive in a long-distance relationship.

The truth is, it will take some effort. But with a little forethought and dedication you can keep the romance alive and well in your relationship even while you’re far away from your partner.

And one of the most romantic things you can do to show your love and create feelings of anticipation is to put together a creative love package for your partner.

The effort that you put into it will ensure that your partner remains irresistibly drawn to you no matter how far you away you are. And the more thought you put into it, the more anxious your partner will be; patiently waiting for you to return so that they can wrap their arms around you again.

Creating the Love Package

If you are going on a trip and you want to leave something for your partner to find, you can plan ahead and drop an item or a ‘care package’ on the bed or in the kitchen before you leave. If you’d rather send something from afar, you can do that too.

You should know what it is that makes your partner happy. Anything that brightens up their day and makes them feel loved should be used in creating their ‘forget-me-not’ love package.

So be creative and see if you can come up with some romantic ideas your own.

You can buy these items in advance and prepare the package to be mailed later, and then tuck the package(s) in your suitcase, OR you can buy the items on the road and mail the package back when you feel your partner needs a pick-me-up.

These packages don’t have to be expensive or elaborate.  It is the THOUGHT that counts.

Be sure you wrap fragile items well so they don’t arrive broken, and be sure to put enough postage on the package so it doesn’t get returned to you!

Here are a few romantic ideas for creating your love package:

Romantic Love Notes

Write a short love note for every day or for special dates you will be gone and place each note in a decorated envelope. Write the date you want your partner to open the love note on the front of each envelope.

Make sure that you decorate the envelope so that it is enticing for them to want to open!

You can also try mailing the package with all of the notes already in it so that your partner can look forward to opening each love note while you are away.

If your husband is planning on making a big presentation at work on a certain day, write a note for him that will help to boost his self-confidence and let him know that you believe in him. Make sure that you label the note so that he opens it on that particular day.

You can do something similar for your wife as well!

If you want to go ahead and write an intoxicating romantic love letter, you can do that as well. Learning how to write a romantic love letter isn’t difficult either. Just relax, write from your heart, and be sincere as you illustrate how you feel about your partner.

And if you’re already travelling but you want to do something for your partner to show them that you were thinking of them, cut words or phrases out of the on board airline magazine and tape or glue them on the hotel stationary to make a funny or sweet love letter.

Romantic Calendar

Create or purchase a calendar and write little love notes on the calendar for each day or for special days. Your partner can hang this ‘love calendar’ at home of in their office.

They’ll be reminded that you are always thinking of them every time they read one of the love notes that you’ve written.

Consider creating a fun, handmade calendar complete with art works and drawings. You can even stick pictures of you or of the special places you’ve visited together onto this calendar to constantly remind them of the love you share.

And don’t worry about being a masterful artist or photographer, your partner will appreciate the effort and your ‘art work’ will become a cherished memento.

Love Gifts and Romantic Reminders

Include a personal item in the package (an earring, a comb, a cufflink or something that belongs to you. If it is part of a pair, and you keep the other part with you, the thought is even more romantic).

Also, include a non-perishable edible item (like a lollipop, or perhaps a small bag of trail mix if your spouse uses that for energy while biking or walking his exercise trail)

Make a CD of a song or songs you both love and send a copy with a romantic title or love note attached to it.

Leaving little personal gifts of love and romantic reminders is a great way to spice up a long-distance relationship and keep the romance going strong.

Figuring out how to keep the romance alive in a long distance relationship isn’t difficult once you can come up with creative romantic ideas. So don’t be afraid to experiment and try fun and unique things that you feel you and your lover may enjoy.

By Jasmine Jones

Romantic partners are always seeking out new and exciting ways of expressing their love. And studying the five love languages will give you ideas of how to most effectively express your love for your partner.

Some people have greater need for spending one-on-one-time with their partners, and these people best understand love expressed in the love language called quality time.

If your partner seems lonely and disconnected from you when life crowds out time for the two of you, his love language may be quality time. If she is always begging for date nights, suggesting activities for just the two of you or slipping away from group activities to be by your side, then she may truly need focused time with only you in order to feel loved.

Focused and intentional time spent together can help partners connect deeply on a regular basis. Some may think that spending focused time with a partner is out of reach for those on tight budgets.

After all, romantic dinner dates, babysitters and weekends away are not cheap.

However, one key point to remember is that a partner who needs focused time likely cares little about where that time takes place. These types of people are just as satisfied to have a cup of coffee with their loved one as they are going to an expensive restaurant for dinner.

A daily walk around the block, 30 minutes chatting on the couch or an hour sitting in a porch swing together are all free ways of spending time with your partner.

3 Inexpensive Ways to Spend Quality Time Together

If money is tight, you may struggle to find interesting and affordable date ideas. But with some creativity and diligence, you can find plenty of fun things to do with your partner that do not cost much money. And here are a few creative date ideas to get you started:

1. Local Colleges

If a university or community college is in your area, you have a potential source of plenty of low-cost date options. If you love music and art, you will likely be able to attend student concerts and art exhibits for relatively little cost.

You can also watch many college-level sporting events for less money than the cost of tickets to a professional sporting event. Even if tickets to a college football game are not in the budget, you may be interested in learning about a new, unfamiliar sport such as fencing or lacrosse.

2. Community Organizations

Churches and clubs are another potential source for budget-friendly date ideas. Especially around Easter and Christmas, many churches and community organizations create special musical evenings, concerts and plays.

Throughout the year, churches, clubs and other organizations may also host interesting lectures and meetings.

Look in your local paper to find out what your community has to offer.

3. Parks and Recreation

Take advantage of local state and national park systems in your area. Even if you cannot afford an overnight cabin, leave the kids with Grandma and spend an entire day hiking, fishing and swimming at a state park.

Many cities also provide opportunities to enjoy the arts in city parks. These offerings may feature “Shakespeare in the Park” or other dramatic and musical performances that are offered completely for free.

Child Care On the Cheap – What About the Kids?

Now that you have some inexpensive date ideas, you still may wonder how you can afford to have a date, since paying a babysitter can be quite costly. The cheapest way to find date night child-care is to leave your children with grandparents or other relatives.

Alternately, you can offer to trade childcare with another trusted couple who may have children close in age to your own. Perhaps two Fridays a month you and your partner can go out, leaving your children with this couple. On alternate Fridays you will care for the other couple’s children.

Another way of finding inexpensive childcare is to go out later in the evening after the children are in bed. You may be able to offer a teen less money for this responsibility.

After all, the sitter will likely have little work to do, but will simply need to be available if a child wakes.

Although figuring out how to spend quality time with your partner can be challenging when money is tight, it will be worth it. Quality time is one of the five love languages that can seem hard to express when you have money troubles, but make your partner’s need for feeling and understanding love a priority.

Get creative, and your partner will begin to understand exactly how deeply you care.

By Luke Daniels

Want to learn how to flirt but don’t know where to start? No problem. And lucky for you it doesn’t take much to begin mastering the art of flirting.

The first thing you should know is that flirting is a human mating ritual. More complex than just a lucky wink or well-placed smile, flirting is instinctual. Everyone does it, but not everyone does it well.

Secondly, you would do well to flirt with confidence. Always flirt with the mindset that this person WANTS you to talk to them. Keep this thought at the forefront of your mind by convincing yourself  that this person wants nothing more than for you to approach them and strike up a flirtatious conversation.

And always keep failure out of your mind. This is the key to flirting fearlessly. And learning how to flirt fearlessly may even increase your chances of finding your soulmate.

So to help you improve your flirting game, here are ten tips scientifically proven to boost your bodacious flirtations:

1.  Smile with your eyes and your lips. A great smile can be recognized from far away and is a clear indicator of interest when directed toward your target.

2.  Keep it simple. Believe it or not, but a friendly “Hi” or “Hey” works much better than any cheesy pick up line.

3.  Ask a question that requires more than a yes or no answer. Example: What do you think of the music?

4.  Don’t break eye contact unless the other person directs your attention. Keeping eye contact shows you find the other person interesting, even magnetic.

5.  Keep it fun. Don’t discuss heavy topics like politics or religion. This is not a debate. You want to see what you have in common not what you don’t.

6.  Play with your hair, jewelry or clothing. Doing these things will subconsciously draw the other persons eyes to you and instinctively shows your interest. This is quite similar to when animals preen themselves to attract a mate’s attentions.

7.  Be funny. If you aren’t exactly Adam Sandler don’t worry, just be yourself and keep it light. Laugh at your target’s jokes and comments. Just be yourself and keep on smiling. Try using comedian, Jerry Seinfeld’s, technique by finding the humor in everyday situations through witty observations.

8.  Lean toward the person as they talk. It shows that you find what they are saying quite interesting. Doing this will in turn make them find you more interesting. Everyone loves thinking that his or her life is fascinating.

9.  Touch the person lightly and quickly, never for too long. It will create sexual tension and it will also allow you to see if there is any chemistry between you both. Refrain from touching anything inappropriate, after all you just met.

10.  Make the other person feel proud and confident. Bolster your target’s ego by making comments such as: “I never really thought of it that way” or “I like the way you think.”

11.  Leave them wanting more.  Always leave before you would really like to. Chances are they will be surprised you are leaving so soon, but this is the perfect chance to leave them with a good impression and keep them thinking about you later. Example: “This was fun, let me give you my number. You should definitely call or text me sometime.” Statements like this put the ball in the target’s court and they can call you or if they’re too shy they can send a text instead.

Don’t take chances in your endeavored romances. Take a sure-fire approach to flirting and use these ideas to improve your game and become an irresistible catch to the one you desire.

And remember; when learning how to flirt, always be yourself. Just trust your instincts and let things happen naturally. And most importantly, be confident. Because most of the time it’s not what you say that counts, but it’s HOW you say it that really matters.